Consensus Doesn't Mean Unanimous!
Don’t wait for everyone to be in total agreement or all yay votes. You’ll stay stuck! And your poor pipe organ need not wait any longer for the care it needs. The objective is for members to feel a part of the process by giving them an opportunity to voice their concerns/objections. Building a consensus in a church can be challenging, but here are some tips that may help:
- Pay attention to commonalities among the group.
- It is acceptable to get a “show of hands” to know where the group stands; you may have more consensus than you think.
- Encourage open communication: Encourage members to share their thoughts and ideas openly, without fear of judgment or criticism.
- Seek common ground: Look for areas of agreement and focus on finding solutions that work for everyone.
- Listen actively: Listen carefully to what others are saying and try to understand their perspective before responding.
- Be respectful: Show respect for others and their opinions, even if you don’t agree with them.
- Pray together: Spend time in prayer together, asking for guidance and seeking unity in the decisions that need to be made.
- Have a clear process: Establish a clear process for decision-making and stick to it. This can help ensure that everyone has a chance to be heard and that decisions are made fairly.
- Seek outside help if needed: If you’re struggling to reach a consensus, consider seeking outside help from a mediator or other trusted third party.
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